Meeting someone in person that you’ve only ever talked to online is a surreal experience. When we talk to people on the internet, they tend to exist in this space where we ascribe them certain features and characteristics that aren’t really based on anything. We hear a voice, maybe see a few photos, and our brains fill in a billion blanks so that the voice we hear isn’t just some detached sound filtered through thousands of miles of cables. We compensate for what we don’t know about them.